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When you start messageing someone it can, like any form of communication, take time for you both to be on the same wavelenght and to understand eachother. These early days of messaging are a time to cultivate a true friendship that can be the foundation of something much stronger as time goes on so put effort in to those first few emails they could be the start of something really special and deserve good attention. Let me know your thoughts on this - do you agree, or disagree, do you prefer to send lots of bland messages hoping someone will reply or do you put effort into each and every message you send?
I look foward to reading your comments on this and remember - the best comment of the week wins a months free membership to Maybefriends.com - the Home of Irish Dating
I look foward to reading your comments on this and remember - the best comment of the week wins a months free membership to Maybefriends.com - the Home of Irish Dating
Labels: Irish online dating - messages 2
posted by MaybeFriends.com at
07:37
3 Comments:
It's really obvious when someone hasn't put any thought into a mail they send to you. Personally, although out of good manners I'll always reply, but I certainly won't put much effort into my response in such cases.
When someone actually takes the time to review your profile and maybe pick up on some areas of mutual interest (or even areas where they are totally opposed), then at least it shows they really want to communicate with you.
It's too easy to send the silly old blah, blah, blah messages to 50 people you spot on-line with 'Hi, how are you' or some other such mundane comment!
Toffee
I notice a couple of people making an effort to try and encourage a bit of social atmosphere here. Apart from the few who seem to be making the effort...there is very little interaction going on....so it kind of looks like the whole show is dependent on them! I wish more people like that would make an effort.....I half think they are employed by the site, and if they are not, they really should be...but if there was an incentive by the site people it might help to encourage people to be more proactive to encourage people to get together.....etc etc.....
Irish_Ninja
In the past I have put an effort into reviewing someones profile and making reference to something in it so they know I have at least read it, but often the email is ignored so after a while you get to a point you feel whats the point and just write something simple like "Hi, hows it going?"
It might mean they'll take a look and your profile and if they like it then we can both engage in fuller messages.
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